Good Girl Problems

madymoiselle asked: a lot of these posts describe me so well haha. overall, do you think it's a positive or negative thing to be a good girl?

Answer:

I pretty much expressed my views on “being a good girl” here. But basically, I think a “good girl” is someone who can take responsibility for herself and shows confidence in her actions and words. There are no strict guidelines for being a “good girl”, and I know that people get a lot of shit for contradicting the term and its connotation (e.g., “Oh no, you tried alcohol at this party this one time, so you’re totally not a good girl~”).

I started this blog as a way to poke fun at the label. Some of these posts apply to many of us, but we can never epitomize the image of a “good girl”. We change overtime, and that’s okay.

Stay lovely~

— 3 months ago

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1derlandisinthewardrobe asked: I absolutely love this blog!!! Just started following and love everything on here! I'm almost 20 years old and almost every one of these things applys to me and I get slack for it, but its how I was raised and its who I am and I'm proud!

Answer:

Thank you!! :D

— 12 months ago

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Cheyenne’s Story

I want to be the perfect child, the perfect student, the perfect athlete, the perfect friend, the perfect girlfriend, and ultimately a perfect person. But, trying to maintain all of that is so ridiculous. What’s even worse is that I try. In the end, I end up having to give up the lesser things. I end up sacrificing what I really want for what I know I my parents would approve of.(Being a good girl) Sometimes I get so stressed that I need to blow off steam and dum-da-da-dum; my tumblr. Follow me.

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— 1 year ago with 3 notes

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